{"id":1044,"date":"2009-07-15T09:22:00","date_gmt":"2009-07-15T09:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/?p=1044"},"modified":"2019-11-22T16:48:49","modified_gmt":"2019-11-22T16:48:49","slug":"the-art-of-constructive-criticism","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/?p=1044","title":{"rendered":"The art of constructive criticism"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last weekend I went up to the Peterborough Diocese to lead a study day on &#8216;Transforming the World&#8217; using <a href=\"http:\/\/elizaphanian.blogspot.com\/2007\/10\/let-us-be-human-central-post.html\">my LUBH material<\/a>, which I thought went well, and the feedback has been solidly positive. Along with the positive feedback, however, came two bits of &#8216;criticism&#8217;, ie that I ask &#8216;is that clear?&#8217; or &#8216;does that make sense?&#8217; a bit too often, and I have a tendency to smile too much (something of a nervous tic) which might suggest that I don&#8217;t take the material as seriously as might be expected. This I felt was an excellent example of constructive criticism &#8211; things that I can do something about to continually improve my presentation skills so that the message gets across ever more effectively. <\/p>\n<p>I do think that our culture as a whole, and clergy in particular, need training in how to give constructive criticism; it&#8217;s an incredibly useful art and would probably lead to many fewer of the conflicts now afflicting us if we were able to practise it more effectively. I suppose it&#8217;s a way of &#8216;speaking the truth in love&#8217;, which is something I need to work on myself (that is, I think I&#8217;ve got the &#8216;speaking the truth&#8217; bit down OK, it&#8217;s the latter that needs attention&#8230;.)<br \/><span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last weekend I went up to the Peterborough Diocese to lead a study day on &#8216;Transforming the World&#8217; using my LUBH material, which I thought went well, and the feedback has been solidly positive. Along with the positive feedback, however, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/?p=1044\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[31,25,42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1044","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ang-communion","category-autobiography","category-lubh-2"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3npsc-gQ","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1044","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1044"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1044\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6413,"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1044\/revisions\/6413"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1044"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1044"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1044"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}