{"id":5701,"date":"2015-12-31T20:15:55","date_gmt":"2015-12-31T20:15:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/?p=5701"},"modified":"2019-11-22T16:34:27","modified_gmt":"2019-11-22T16:34:27","slug":"so-that-was-2015","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/?p=5701","title":{"rendered":"So that was 2015"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What a year! Everything changed.<\/p>\n<p>This was the most important thing, in November&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/wedding-photo.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"5702\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/?attachment_id=5702\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/wedding-photo.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"960,716\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"wedding photo\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/wedding-photo.jpg\" src=\"http:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/wedding-photo-300x223.jpg\" alt=\"wedding photo\" width=\"300\" height=\"223\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-5702\" srcset=\"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/wedding-photo-300x223.jpg 300w, https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/wedding-photo-402x300.jpg 402w, https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/wedding-photo.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8230; <a href=\"http:\/\/artheds.com\/artists\/victoria-burton-davey\/\" target=\"_blank\">Victoria<\/a> and I had an excellent honeymoon in Vienna, despite missing our outbound flight (that&#8217;ll be the subject of a long blog post in due course). Enjoying cocktails in the<a href=\"http:\/\/www.loosbar.at\/\" target=\"_blank\"> Loos designed American Bar<\/a> was a particular highlight.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/12291209_10153047193781307_7482121747722901992_o.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"5707\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/?attachment_id=5707\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/12291209_10153047193781307_7482121747722901992_o.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"2048,1152\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"12291209_10153047193781307_7482121747722901992_o\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/12291209_10153047193781307_7482121747722901992_o-1024x576.jpg\" src=\"http:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/12291209_10153047193781307_7482121747722901992_o-300x168.jpg\" alt=\"12291209_10153047193781307_7482121747722901992_o\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-5707\" srcset=\"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/12291209_10153047193781307_7482121747722901992_o-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/12291209_10153047193781307_7482121747722901992_o-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/12291209_10153047193781307_7482121747722901992_o-500x281.jpg 500w, https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/12291209_10153047193781307_7482121747722901992_o.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I now have six children and three dogs.<\/p>\n<p>I also became a great-uncle. Not yet as white as <a href=\"http:\/\/wombles.wikia.com\/wiki\/Great_Uncle_Bulgaria\" target=\"_blank\">Bulgaria<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Also important was finally implementing a major change in parish responsibilities, bringing my workload back into line with the local average &#8211; delighted to have a colleague with common sense!<\/p>\n<p>Actually, I am feeling blessed through all of my colleagues at the moment, especially <a href=\"http:\/\/www.chelmsford.anglican.org\/areas-and-bishops\/area-bishops\/bishop-of-colchester\" target=\"_blank\">the local Bish<\/a>. (Say it quietly, but I&#8217;m even becoming a fan of the Archdeacon&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>Had an excellent family holiday camping in July<\/p>\n<p>Had a wonderful Greenbelt in smaller form. I&#8217;m more and more persuaded that it is my tribe, despite the fact that I&#8217;m probably a complete heretic on several of their shibboleths.<\/p>\n<p>Managed to get some sailing in for the first in many years, including my first off-shore racing which was a fabulous experience &#8211; with one downside being the painful discovery that I have arthritis in my knees. They will need to be managed carefully.<\/p>\n<p>Continued to press on with Panto and &#8211; influenced a long time ago by <a href=\"http:\/\/diggingalot.org\/wordpress\/\">Graham<\/a> &#8211; I performed as the dame back in January:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"420\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/iDLn7Ecw7vM\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Overwhelmingly the worst thing, though, was the decision by my ex-wife to move to Wales and take two of the four children with her &#8211; still fighting that through the courts \ud83d\ude41  which I&#8217;ve discovered to be a seriously incompetent organisation, to the extent of having an apology at the most recent hearing from the judge, as she was so shocked by what had happened. One day it&#8217;s a tale to be told.<\/p>\n<p>Second worst thing (just) was the experience of applying for a mortgage with the Nationwide Building Society, for whom I have previously been a loyal customer\/member for over seventeen years. Possibly the worst experience I&#8217;ve ever had with a bureaucracy &#8211; now in the hands of the financial ombudsman (I&#8217;ve become much more determined about seeing things to the bitter end these days).<\/p>\n<p>Anyhow, the bad is massively outweighed by the good. Lots of fundamental structures have now been put into place which will allow me &#8211; and all of us &#8211; to flourish over the long term. I am eager to press on and pursue various specialist ministries in addition to becoming freshly embedded in Mersea church and wider life. We might even get another boat.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, joy has come back into my life. Roll on 2016.<\/p>\n<p>Previous years: <a href=\"http:\/\/elizaphanian.blogspot.com\/2006\/01\/so-that-was-2005.html\">2005<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/elizaphanian.blogspot.com\/2006\/12\/so-that-was-2006.html\">2006<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/elizaphanian.blogspot.com\/2007\/12\/so-that-was-2007.html\">2007<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/elizaphanian.blogspot.com\/2009\/01\/so-that-was-2008.html\">2008<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/elizaphanian.blogspot.com\/2010\/01\/so-that-was-2009.html\">2009<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/elizaphanian.blogspot.com\/2010\/12\/so-that-was-2010.html\">2010<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/elizaphanian.blogspot.co.uk\/2011\/12\/so-that-was-2011.html\">2011<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/?p=267\">2012<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/?p=5381\" target=\"_blank\">2013<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/?p=5562\" target=\"_blank\">2014<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What a year! Everything changed. This was the most important thing, in November&#8230; &#8230; Victoria and I had an excellent honeymoon in Vienna, despite missing our outbound flight (that&#8217;ll be the subject of a long blog post in due course). &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/?p=5701\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[25],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5701","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-autobiography"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3npsc-1tX","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5701","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5701"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5701\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5709,"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5701\/revisions\/5709"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5701"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5701"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elizaphanian.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5701"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}